Enneagram Four Observations
Some recent observations about Enneagram Fours from an Enneagram Coach
Here are some things I’ve noticed about Enneagram Fours that really don’t have enough text (or importance) to make a post or fill a book, but are interesting to us Enneagram nerds nonetheless.
If you are an Enneagram Four or love an Enneagram Four I’d love to hear from you in the comments? How do these observations resonate?
Enneagram Four seems to almost enjoy having a contrary opinion to the group.
Enneagram Four is expressing desires to find themselves even though their “flavor” is very pronounced.
Enneagram Four has been unheard from in almost 9 business days.
Enneagram Four is once again asking you to follow their new creative business.
Enneagram Four will overshare then feel deep anxiety about oversharing.
Enneagram Four is deeply relational but also carries a lot of fear of rejection.
Enneagram Four sees being in pain as being important -like living in a canon life event and being very aware of it. People also seem to care more about people who are in pain.
Enneagram Fours struggle to see themselves as creative.
Enneagram Fours can access the emotions of memories almost as strongly as when the event occurred. (these are often brought up by pictures, music…etc)
Fours are afraid of being too predictable, and like to have a bit of mystery, while also being understood on a deep level.
Fours love a good metaphor.
Fours need variety in some areas and bone deep consistency in others. What those specifics areas in their life will be are as unique as the Fours themselves.
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The one about oversharing then feelng anxiety hits hard. That paradox of wanting deep conection while also carrying rejection fear is so real for Fours.